What do you do you do when you realise the man you have met is on the rebound from a relationship? I have met this really lovely man, and unlike all of the other guys that I have dated since I got into escorting with London escorts, he seems to accept what I do for a living. Once you tell a guy you work for a London escorts, he would normally run a mile, but this guy is different somehow and I love spending time with him.
However, like in all relationships there are problems. This guy is on the rebound from a previous experience, and I am not sure that he is really in love with me.
Sometimes it feels like he is just happy to have someone in his life again, and a girl to call HIS girlfriend. I don’t think that he has really got over his previous love, and it worries me. During my time with London escorts, I have met many guys who seem to spend a couple of years falling in and out of love with girls once they have ended a long term relationship. Like I have said to the girls at charlotte London escorts, I don’t want to end up being cast aside and have my feelings hurt.
Thomas can be rather gushing at times. It is a little bit like he tells me what I want to hear, and it is all too good to be true. One minute he wants me to give up London escorts so that we can run off into the sunset together. The next minute he is not sure about our relationship at all, but still wants me to leave charlotte London escorts so that we can spend more time together. I have not attention of doing neither, and I would not give up London escorts unless he promises to put a ring on my finger.
Am I being too hard on him? Some days I feel that I am going over the top, and just pushing this guy a little bit too much. But at the same time I know that unless I stand up for myself, I may come out worse for wear in this relationship. Sure, I like him, but there are days when I am not so much in love with him. It is hard to explain really, but fortunately for me my best friend at charlotte London escorts know how I feel, and if anything goes wrong, she will support me and help me sort things out.
I wish I had a crystal ball to see when Thomas is planning to snap out of his indecisive mood. Perhaps he never will, and in that case, I would like to end the relationship. Even though he is one of the nicest men that I have ever met, his ups and downs are beginning to get on my nerves. Sure, I appreciate that he has been through a relationship break up. But, when he calls me when I am on duty at London escorts to cancel our date because he is upset, I feel like he is wasting my time, and his own time. Would he like to be in a relationship with me, or would he like to make a go of i again with his former partner? That is what he needs to decide.